Don’t you love a romantic table setting? I sure do, and Valentine’s Day is just perfect for one!
This one is a subtly romantic table setting – one you could use all year, not just at this very romantic holiday.

I do so love gold, silver, and white. They’re elegant but understated, and make a big impact when you use them together.

Add in some soft color with the flower arrangement, and you’ve got the makings of a lovely romantic table setting.

I actually did a series about the same table with different centerpieces which illustrates this point perfectly. Here’s the first one, if you want to check it out.
Romantic Table Setting for a Double Date
We love to have people over. And more often than not, we share Valentine’s Day with close friends – a double date if you will!
Here, I put the table to its smallest proportions so it has a more intimate feel than usual.

This set up is very like what I do almost every time we sit down at the table. But with a few extra touches to elevate it for our double date.
First, a Lovely Tablecloth
To me, a tablecloth says “fancy!” For instance, I use a charger almost every night. But I almost never use a tablecloth unless I want my table to be extra special. And a white tablecloth is the fanciest of all! (At least the most formal of all.) And it makes a great base for a romantic table setting.
This one has a lot of texture, which I love. The days of the rigidly ironed tablecloth are gone, but I still like to keep mine as wrinkle-free as possible. This one just came straight out of the dryer and onto the table.

Place Cards Make a Romantic Table Setting Even More Intimate
Place cards are another little touch that makes a table so much more special. Here, I asked my wonderful husband, who is way more artistic than I am, to write the guests’ names on the cards.

I’ve seen tons of creative ways to use place cards. You can put them in stands or even stick them in pinecones, depending on the look you’re going for. In this case, I just set them gently on the plate for some casual elegance.
These particular cards are heavy glossy card stock, and come folded like a tent. Since I was down to my last few and wasn’t going to stand them up anyway, I cut them on the fold to make a flat card.
Crystal for Elegance
If a tablecloth says fancy, crystal says “elegant!” Here we have some crystal candle holders and centerpiece vase (which you’ll see more of later) with lots of cut facets for maximum sparkle.
We also have wine glasses that not only sparkle, but have a lovely gold rim around the top. Together they go a long way toward making our romantic table setting elegant as well.

They also have a beautiful etched floral design, which echoes the florals in our centerpiece.

Which brings us to the next romantic touch –
A Beautiful Centerpiece in Valentines Colors
Pink is the color of romance! (It’s really a perfect color to accent a wide variety of table settings, not just romantic table settings. I’ve always wanted to do a black and white and pink one, for instance.) But in this case, it IS romantic and does justice to our white, gold, and silver table.

This arrangement uses my basic concept of three different shades of the same color. The lilies are light pink, the carnations (which weren’t all the way open for this photo,) are a little deeper shade, and the tulips a deep pink. They complement each other while still keeping a cohesive look.
The eucalyptus gives the arrangement some extra width, and also some flowy movement that I really like.
What’s a Romantic Table Setting Without Candles?
And finally, candles! A true nod to romance.

I also wanted to point out another little thing that adds so much to your setting. See the greenery behind the table on the buffet? That’s the eucalyptus and unopened lilies left over from making my centerpiece! I just stuck them in a pitcher, and set them out. It wasn’t an “arrangement,” but it added a nice extra touch to the room.

Thanks for sharing my romantic table setting! Let me know how you make your settings romantic – I’d love to hear what you’re planning for the occasion!
And here’s a secret! With the exception of only 3 things, this whole table was set with pieces from Goodwill that I picked up for less than $90 on a lunch hour! You can share my shopping trip at the YES YOU REALLY CAN SET A BEAUTIFUL TABLE FOR CHEAP! post.
More Double Date Inspiration
And if you’d like more inspiration, hop on over to my friend Rani at Lone Star Gatherings for her wonderful suggestions for a budget friendly Double Date dinner!


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Such a gorgeous tablescape, Barbara! Perfect for Valentine’s Day! I’m so delighted to be featuring your post at Tuesday Turn About this week! Pinned!
Oh thank you Julie – how sweet of you! I’m just popping over there now. See you soon!
Another gorgeous table setting Barbara. You always give me many great ideas.
Aw thanks! The feeling is mutual!
Barbara, this is a beautiful and romantic table. I love all of your details, especially the lovely flowers and exquisite wine glasses. Happy Valentine’s Day ♥️
Hi Pam! Aren’t those glasses great? I found them for almost nothing at Goodwill last month! Hope you and RM have a wonderful Valentines weekend – take care down there!
The romantic table setting is absolutely gorgeous. I really like the tablecloth as a neutral, textured background. And, it’s excellent that it goes straight from the dryer to the table with no ironing!
Carol
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Thanks so much Carol – yes, I love the no-iron aspect of the tablecloth! 🙂 So sweet of you to stop by. Hope you have a lovely Valentines weekend!
Absolutely exquisite, elegant, and beautiful. I would love to sit at that table on Valentine’s Day or any occasion.
Thanks so much Judee! That’s so sweet of you, and sweet of you to stop by too. I popped over to your blog and love it! I’ll definitely be making a return visit to find out more about iguanas AND all things gluten free! 🙂
Such a beautiful table setting, Barbara! It is so elegant and pretty! Thank you so much for sharing at Tuesday Turn About! Have a wonderful weekend!
Thanks Lynne – you three host a beautiful party! A great reason to visit your blog more often too! 🙂 Thanks so much for hosting, and see you next week!
Such a classic, elegant and beautiful table!! Thanks for sharing and thank you so much for joining our Fabulous Friday Link Party!
You’re so welcome Michele – I’m so excited that you’ve started it! Thanks so much for stopping over, and see you next week for sure! 🙂
Hi Barbara! Your table is so romantic and lovely. That tablecloth is beautiful, and I especially love your centerpiece arrangement. Thanks for sharing!
Anytime! 🙂 So nice to see you here Crissy! Hope everything’s going great for you these days!
I love this idea. Thank you so much for linking up with Fabulous Friday Link Party! We sure appreciate you, Hugs and blessings to you.
I plan to be a regular over there! You did such a wonderful job with your very first party – it’s absolutely beautiful! Thanks so much for popping in, and enjoy our sunshine today! (Oh wait – maybe that sunshine thing is just wishful thinking … !) 🙂 Happy Friday my friend!
Beautiful flowers and table setting…you had me at the candlelight. Gorgeous.
Thank you so much Leslie! Isn’t candlelight the best? Thanks so much for stopping by, and Happy February!
Your table setting is absolutely gorgeous, Barbara! Also, your blog in general is lovely and I’m subscribing right now!
I appreciate your interaction on my posts, thank you!
Marieza! Thank you so much for subscribing! I LOVED your blog and can’t wait to go back for more! Welcome to M&T, and I’ll see you out there!
BEAUTIFUL!
YOU ARE READY!!!
I LOVE SETTING A TABLE EVEN IF ITS FOR TWO!
Absolutely! Hope you’re doing ok over there and those 4-legged family members are keeping you entertained! 🙂
Oh, and I forgot to mention that gorgeous tablecloth!
Another part of the fun story! 🙂
Barbara, this is absolutely stunning! Wow! Who wouldn’t feel honored to dine at this beautiful table? Your flowers are gorgeous and I just love those pretty wine glasses – have you used them before and if you did how did I miss those lol? I hope you have a wonderful double date dinner for Valentine’s Day! Take care!
Kim you are so sweet! I’m so glad you like it! The glasses are new, and there’s a story behind them that I’ll tell you about pretty soon! 🙂 Can’t wait to see your next table too!
Beautiful Barbara! I love the way you did the flowers…
Thanks Jenna – that’s one of my favorite ways to make a few flowers go a long way! 🙂 Dreaming of all your yummy sweets today – it’s cold and rainy and perfect for sitting by the fire with some treats!
Lovely setting and a very pleasant article.
Thanks Sean! I was wondering the other day about how your Mardi Gras dinner turned out last year – it’s almost time to start planning another one! 🙂 Happy Tablescaping!
Barbara, an elegant and romantic table. I just love the flowers and the combination of pink colors. This makes me want to get out my pretty china and start experimenting with Valentine settings! Thanks for the inspiration!
Any time! 🙂 I love the pinks too – can’t wait to see what you come up with!
Gorgeous! You have me thinking of Tablescape ideas. This is simple elegance at its finest. And oh my goodness, your wine glasses are stunning! Hugs to you, my friend.
Hi Renae! Thanks my friend, and you’ll never guess where I got those wine glasses – that’s actually a story for another day soon! 🙂 Happy Thursday!